LOVE BETWEEN ADULTS IS NOT UNCONDITIONAL!

Love is not unconditional.You must accept the harsh truth that love between adults is not unconditional. It can wither and die without due care. Harshness, neglect, thoughtlessness and lack of contact can kill love. One hymn writer says, “By many deeds of shame we learn that love grows cold”. Many marriages began with love and then one or both partners became careless. It took the other partner for granted and did not watch its looks words, purpose in life and gradually the flow of love stopped and the tender plant died. Your desire is to stay happy in your marriage and it does not come so easily. It requires effort and you must be prepared to do it for love. 

Love is like a tender plant and will blossom if given the right kind of nourishment. On the other hand love that is not nourished or given the wrong kind of food will die. Since love must be nourished or else it will die, the relationship must be harmonious. If you don’t work to keep your relationship in top form, cracks will start showing and before you know it your relationship is no longer healthy.Love need not die but can grow from one level of gory to another with time. 

You must express your love. You must tell her to her hearing that you love her and she has to do the same. Give lot of hugs freely.If you don’t express your love in some affectionate way, it becomes weak. A kind word, a caring attitude, not being moody and not rejecting affection will help build your marriage. You must be tolerant. Be patient and tolerate one another. You must bear with your partners shortcomings or weaknesses. Nobody is perfect, not even you. The reason why you must bear with your partners faults is because you also have faults that he or she must bear. Don’t keep a diary of offenses but learn to forgive and forget.

 If you pay attention to these issues there are no marriage problems that you cannot be surmounted!