Tuesday, 22 May 2012

WRONG AND RIGHT REASONS TO GET MARRIED

Wrong Reasons to Get Married

Want to be free from parents.
To have sex.
To ease loneliness.
To be happy.
To show you are an adult.
Because of a pregnancy.
He or she loves you.
To save or help someone.
Because you want a baby.
For money.

For Fame.
Long relationship
Because all your friends are married.
You've always wanted a fancy wedding.
Out of fear that no one else will want to marry you.
You think you are running out of time to get married.
For immigration purposes.
You are tired of being single.
You don't want people gossiping about the two of you living together



Getting married for the wrong reasons to the wrong person can be devastating. 
This may result in both living the rest of their life in misery. 
Their marriage may end in separation or divorce. Worse still, they may never 
separate but simply live a miserable and unfaithful existence with each other. 
This situation is simply “hell” on earth.




Right Reasons to Get Married

You are in love with one another.
A desire to share your life with another.
To have a lifetime companion.
Realistic expectations.
Willingness to help one another fulfill their own needs and dreams.


A marriage without Christ can never experience the spiritual bonding 
God brings to relationships. It is good to be married. God created marriage
 for our enjoyment and He pronounced it good. 
Therefore, those of you who are contemplating to marry should not make 
the mistake of leaving God out of your life in choosing your life partner.
 If you do, all your accomplishment and goal will be futile. 
Make God your highest priority and let Him guide you to make 
the right choice and also partner with you in building a
 long lasting and successful marriage.

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