The most important discovery of a male is his vision. Vision gives a male a sense of meaning in life. Vision provides security and meaning for the female also because she came into your life to help you go to wherever you are going.You should never marry a woman if you don’t know where you are going. That’s an abuse of a woman. She came to help you, to help you with what, is the question. The male was created first. First doesn't mean you are better, it means you are responsible for everything that comes after you. God never taught the woman anything, He automatically made the male her teacher.
The greatest gift God gave man is not the gift of sight, but the gift of vision. The greatest enemy of vision is sight. Sight is a function of the eyes but vision is a function of the heart. Never trust your eyes over your vision. Vision shows you what could be, sight shows you what is. Always live by what you see with your vision, and not what you see with your eyes. The Bible says we walk by faith not by sight. Vision contradict your eyes.
If you have no vision, you can be lead by good things that are not right. Good things are not always right. Vision is purpose which you can see.A man who knows his purpose doesn't go home and sit in front of the television with beer in his hand, drinking for five hours. Vision makes you a finished man. Your vision is your true concept.
To know if a vision is from God, it will make you look like a fool. If they believe you the first time you tell them, it’s not from God. Joseph ran and told his daddy, I saw myself sitting on the throne. His brothers said are you crazy? If they don’t think you are crazy, its not a vision from God yet. Joseph’s brothers couldn't handle his dream; they threw his clothes off and threw him in a pit. Joseph never got angry. Joseph in the pit must have said to himself, this is not what I saw. If what you see is not what you saw, then what you see is temporary. Your job is your temporary employment. Enjoy where you are, because it isn't permanent, its temporary. When his brothers took Joseph to the desert and threw him into the pit, it had to be one of the pits right next to the highway, where the merchants caravans would be coming all the way from Syria to Egypt to do business. They had to have thrown him into the right pit right next to the highway. It was the right pit that the caravans had to pass. When his brothers saw the caravans, the took him out of the pit and sold him on the side of the road to the caravans. He was in the right pit right next to the right highway, because the free transportation that he needed to get to the throne was coming that same highway.
If a man wants to marry a woman, the first question a woman should ask a man is not do you love me?, but where are you going. Work before woman, vision before woman, assignment before woman. When a man finds his work, he secures the peace of the woman. A woman doesn't come to compete with you, she comes to complete you.
Most men marry women like companies hire people. Some companies hire people and don’t give them anything to do. It's so frustrating to hire someone and not tell them what to do. When a man discovers his work, then he’s ready for a woman to help him in his work.The woman was created to help the man. If someone is coming to help you, you must be doing something. God said, I will make for him a helper. Everything God built into a woman is to help her man. When some men meet some women, they feel threatened, because they've got no project for her to work on. A woman needs a mans work to be fulfilled, because, she’s a helper. A helper comes to help you. If you need to lift a podium, and you need help, you either need someone as strong as you are, or stronger. We think the woman is the weaker vessel. The word weaker in the Bible means delicate, not without strength. The helper has to either be as strong or stronger, to help you with your work.
WHAT IS A MAN'S VISION THAT GOD GAVE HIM?
SELF-IMAGE: The first thing God gave the male was image, because the most important thing males must have is a self image. His self-image and self confidence is in God. And he must know he is the image of God.
BE IN HIS PRESENCE: The second thing is that the first place God put the man was in Eden, in His presence. The male was placed in the garden first but the female was presented to the man in the Eden. The female met the male in the garden(God's presence). A woman should always marry a man who you meet in God's presence. If you meet a man in the presence of God you cannot go wrong. You don't go outside of the presence of the Lord to meet a man and then try to bring him in the presence of God.
WORK (VISION): The third thing God gave to man was to work (Assignment/vision). God gave man work before woman. Your work is not your job. Your job is what they pay you to do. Your work is what you were born to do. You can retire form your job, you cannot retire from your work because your work is your gift. Your work is your purpose; your purpose is the original reason why you were created. Your work is your source of vision. Vision is purpose in pictures. When you see what you were born to do in pictures, that is your vision. When you find your purpose and see it in pictures, you have discovered your vision. The woman met the man working. You need a man who is working. A man who loves to work.
HOW DOES A WOMAN HELP A MAN IN HIS WORK? PROVERBS 14:1
WISE WOMAN: The Holy Spirit is called the same thing a woman is called 'HELPER'. That is the one who comes along side to help. Holy Spirit does not take over our life, He always comes to help us do what we are doing. So you don't pray and ask Holy Spirit to take over your life. It is a wrong prayer because He is not structured or designed to do that. The Bible says, " when the Holy Spirit comes, He will guide us into all truth and bring to remembrance all things you learnt". If you know nothing, He will keep reminding you "you know nothing", "you know nothing". Knowledge (information) gives the Holy Spirit materials to use when you are under pressure. So a man must be sure he has a plan in place for his life before a woman comes in because a woman like the Holy Spirit comes loaded and equipped ready to help. She got intuition, wisdom, insight, intelligence, sensitivity, power, incubation, anointing and she comes into your life ready to help but if you are doing nothing she can't help you do nothing. She is a provider. You give her a sperm she produces a child. You give her a home she gives you a beautiful house to live in. She is an incubator. God designed a female to be an incubator. An incubator is something that gives life to everything. If you give a woman a word, she will give a sentence. You give her a sentence, she gives a paragraph. You give her a paragraph, you get yourself a book. You give her frustration, she multiplies it and give you hell. A female is an incubator, she receives information, expand it and gives it back to you. A female never keep anything. Incubators never keep anything. they will hold it for a while but you will eventually get it back, and it never comes back the way you gave it out. It comes back multiplied. That is why a woman will bear a pressure for twenty years and one day all of a sudden she goes crazy on the husband. A woman is an encourager. When a man begins to share his vision with you, you need to encourage him even when it seems impossible. God also designed a woman to be a receiver. She is built to receive which means whatever she sees she desires that is why women never have enough. And this create problems for a man if not controlled. Proverbs 31 says a noble woman does not cause her husband to go after spoil. That is a wise woman even though she sees what she wants she does not pressure her man to get it. You don't demand things that will put pressure on your husband. You cannot have everything you see. In a marriage the man is a provider, the source and the woman is suppose to be the incubator. How? Male was design by God to carry the weight of the entire family. Wherever something comes out of sustains it. That is where Father comes from. The male man comes from God. Father means source or sustainer. God created the male out of Himself. God is the Father of the male and his source. The female did not come from the soil. She came out of the male which means the male has become the source of the female.So the male is the father of the female. He is the source and the sustainer of the female. The word "FATHER" means the source and sustainer which means everything you source you gat to sustain. God is responsible for creating the male and then created the female from the male. Secondly, He is a cultivator and the woman is suppose to be the provider. He is the giver and she is the receiver. He is the protector and she is suppose to be the encourager. He is the developer and she is supposed to be the nourisher. He is a teacher and she is suppose to be resource. A woman is design to help a man fulfill the assignment God put in a man to do. A woman is not the the one who comes to destroy what he was assign to do. You don't marry a man and dictate how he is suppose to live. A helper does not run the show. A wise woman helps her husband achieve, studies her husband and constantly does not irritate him, criticize him. A wise woman keeps asking him a question. She tries to find out what his dreams are, his vision is, what his desires are. Her goal is to study him to really get his vision because you cannot help somebody who you do not know his assignment.
FOOLISH WOMAN: Foolish woman is the one who comes into a man's life that is already doing something, instead of helping him because her foolishness and possess with her own plan believes that what she is doing is more important and that she needs her man to do it with her and forget whatever he is doing and do what she is doing. That is a usurp of authority on the man. A woman who finds out that her man has a vision should not create two visions in the house. Submit your vision into his vision. If a woman comes into a man's life and do not submit her vision to the man's, she is creating a division that will ruin the marry. A woman's sense of direction in a marriage is subject to the man's headship! She takes her lead from him! The man uses His vision, talents, skills, power and authority to bring out the very best out of the woman and thereby ensures that her gifts are fully developed to the glory of God. So that is why a man must discover his vision first before looking for a helper! And also a woman is advised to ensure she marries a man with a vision who will help her fulfill her own vision. A woman is a helper and not a destroyer.
Finally, a man needs a woman who can be a helper, the one who can incubate his dreams, encourage him to pursue God's goal for his life, a healer in time of stress, who will not become his number critics but his number protection, one who will be there for him.
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