SEX IS SWEET BUT..............

Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening?

It is a tiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina.

It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female?

Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched?

Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why?

Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood-filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.

Before God, the disflowering of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day.

This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward.

Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed. The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.t.c)
God said it in clear terms, the body is not for fornication”.

Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he/she is working directly against God’s plan and there will definitely be a consequence either now or at old age!

There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks.

There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness!

The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person.

Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessed-men, while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks and cucumbers, as they exercised sex with it.

If only they knew, many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be disflowered in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so.

Let me says it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her ? 1 Corinthians 6:16 says, “And don’t you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, “The two are united into one.”
This is why many girls are not yet married, yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men.

Dear Singles,
know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract.

Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter.

The funny part is that pre-marital sex is not funny at all. What happens between the lines could be deadly and dangerous. The very first day a lady, or a man does that, there will be spiritual transfer of destiny. The sin of fornication gives demons and occultic people direct access into your God’s given destiny. And it drives away your guardian angel, so guys, zip up! Girls wise up!!

Have you seen why fornication for the singles and adultery for the married is very bad omen and demonic too. The consequences are very grievous to bear. Many have blooded their life with all kinds of human beings! Have you seen why Jesus says, it is only unfaithfulness that can one divorce because it takes blooding yourself with another to break the first blood covenant for the married. This is why marriages are under severe attack by the devil today. The above post is a clarion call for repentance, seeking God’s mercy and asking for the grace to live right and stick to your partner alone henceforth. The Lord will soon return, put your house in order.

BIG THINGS COME FROM LITTLE THINGS WE DO!!!

Stella Duru

DESTRUCTIVE SINS THAT CAUSES GREAT MARITAL UNREST!!

Adam and Eve were very happy living in the Garden of Eden. When Eve listened to Satan instead of God, she caused great unhappiness for herself and her husband. All sinful behavior is caused by rebellion against God when people are deceived by the devil. No marriage fails except where one or both partners are involved in SIN. When sin is allowed to get out of control in a marriage, the marriage will fail to provide the happiness and companionship that God intended. Let us consider some of the more destructive sins that can cause great unhappiness in marriage.

1. LAZINESS is one of the most destructive of all sins. Too many people forget that laziness is a sin. Laziness is a major cause of evil. James 4:17 “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin”. Laziness is why there are so many husbands who do not love their wives and why there are so many wives who do not love their husbands. Marriage fails to bring great happiness when they do not work hard enough to create love and build marital relationships.

2. PRIDE is another serious sin that can damage a marriage relationship. Pride is usually the sin that causes all other sins. Pride is thinking that you are better than someone else. It is wrong if you think that you are better than your spouse. Do not think that you are more important to God than your spouse. Jesus shed His blood to forgive your partner’s sins just as He shed it to forgive your sins.

3, SELFISHNESS  is another sin that causes much unhappiness in marriage. If you wish to be miserable, think only about yourself. Think about what you want, what you like, what respect people ought to pay you — and then you will be a very unhappy person and cause your spouse to be unhappy as well. Selfishness causes a husband to lie to his spouse. It causes a wife to be concerned only for her own pleasure. It causes a husband to destroy his marriage by committing adultery. Such sin against God and against one’s spouse usually causes lasting damage to a marriage. In some families the husband or wife will turn to drunkenness because of selfishness. Drinking alcohol causes them to forget their responsibilities to their families. Drunkenness causes violence within a family. Drunkenness is the cause of the destruction of many marriages. Philippians 2:3 Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.

4. ANGER is another sin that can harm a marriage. One episode of anger can damage a relationship of kindness and patience that took years to build. We are too quick to find excuses for our anger.The Bible clearly condemns sinful anger. It is sinful when it is in excess. It is sinful when it is expressed in ways that are harmful. Psalms 37:8 Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; do not fret — it only causes harm. God provides us with a guidebook, the Bible, to follow to help us live more successfully with our spouses. When the husband and wife are both determined to follow the laws of God, it is almost certain that they will find greater and greater joy with each other as they grow older together.

Couples who want to live happy lives together are committed to telling the truth to each other. A stable relationship can be built only by being honest. In happy marriages the couple gets to know one another by talking and LISTENING. Happily married people express appreciation for and give praise to one another. Happy people learn to live with one another with respect and kindness. Happy husbands and wives trust each other deeply. Couples who are happy enjoy spending time together. In happy marriages the husband and wife share responsibilities. A husband who wants a happy wife will not even consider committing adultery. Same goes to the wife.

What can you do for your marriage? How can you increase your marital satisfaction and improve your relationship? The crucial thing is that you have to let go of expecting your spouse to change and work on yourself. Developing a better marriage begins with becoming a better spouse yourself! You can’t change someone else. You can only change yourself. And trying to change your spouse will create tension in your relationship and actually discourage him or her from changing!

Stella Duru