ATTRIBUTES OF A GOOD WOMAN!!!

Most of men's problem is finding a good woman. Some men have been deceived and dazed by a woman's looks, at some point in their lives. Many of them have wasted countless hours and spent fortunes chasing after women who lied to them and basically treated them like dirt. Some regret the lost opportunity to marry a woman who was not exactly physically attractive but was a good woman.

Below are some attributes of a good woman: 

1. She is confidence and family oriented: I believe that one of the most important qualities of an amazing woman is definitely her confidence. Every woman should possess this quality! A woman that is self-confident, that trusts her abilities and exudes confidence all the time is totally irresistible in the eyes of men everywhere. Also, she has a close relationship with her family and avoids bad worldly external elements that may taint its sanctity and purity.

2. Compassionate, gentle and affectionate: Avoids yelling and hurtful confrontational words that can later cause long term damage and resentment. Most men are attracted to women who show they care about the people or things around them. They want to be with someone who’s nice and caring and who can satisfy their need for affection because most of them are only big babies inside that tough exterior. So, don’t be afraid to show your feelings; just try not to smother him because, just like you, he still needs his freedom and that doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

3. She has a big heart and approachable: Thinks about others and knows how to talk to them and treat them. Most men prefer a woman who is approachable, who seems accessible like the girl next door, someone nice and gentle whom you can proudly introduce to your parents, and who’s not afraid of ruining her make-up if you touch her face. So, try not to seem too unavailable because this will only intimidate your dream man!

4. Understanding and Unselfish: Considers you in every situation. She does her part of the work in the relationship to make it strong. Every man wants to be with a woman who is understanding and nice, who’s not nagging him all the time and who's not trying to control his life. Also, a man would really love a woman that accepts him the way he is, that loves him for who he is and who doesn't try to change him. I wouldn't like someone try to change me either; I would gladly try to improve my behavior to make somebody happy, but that would be my choice.

5. Good with kids: If she is unable to be patient and understanding with kids, it is quite possible that she will not be able to be patient and understanding with you.

6. Cooks and cleans well: Women are virtually useless if they do not have domestic skills. Don't get me wrong, men should learn these things too. It's just that you should expect this from women just like women expect a man to buy her a drink. They naturally attain a gift for maintaining life at home with every gentle touch. What a beautiful thing.

7. Patient and encouraging: Men are powered by their ego, which is a known fact and a sex trait they have. You don't have to constantly compliment men all the time, but be encouraging! A man likes to know if he gets a promotion at work, makes a great meal, is having a hard time, or dealing with a life issue, that he has your encouragement and support. Tell him, leave him a note, or even send a card. He'll love you for it! Men love women that are also patience. Sometimes this may be difficult given that time of month but a good woman will have patience, who does not rush things or always in a hurry to get things done.

8. Sense of humor: I guess since nobody likes someone too serious and uptight, it’s understandable why men like women with a great sense of humor. They want someone with whom they can laugh and have fun, because in every relationship there are a lot of other things that matter more than sexual attraction. Don’t worry that you might seem silly or childish; chances are that he is even more childish than you! Don’t be afraid to be yourself! If a woman has a good sense of humor and loves to laugh most of the time. This is a big plus. Life is not that serious all the time so we must learn to drop our corporate grown-up act occasionally. We are all still children.

9. Smell nice: While looks aren't everything, every man likes for a woman to smell nice. Use a great shampoo, wear a great perfume, or just use a fabulous lotion. Whatever scent you choose will be the one he associates with you, so make sure it's a great one! Every time he smells it, he'll think of you and go crazy with comfort and love.

10. Can enjoy and appreciate the simple things: A good woman should be able to enjoy the simplest things in life. Sitting down together and talking over some tea or wine. If she is not able to enjoy the bare minimum, it's time to look for somebody new. A good woman appreciates what she has been given. It's the simplest things in life that count.

11. Independent and Hard working: Is positive about her job and works hard at it. Does not complain and nag about work all the time. Knows how to save her money and spend it realistically (not caught up in lavish living unless affordable). She does not use your money all the time and belittle you for not having enough. In my opinion also, independence is a must-have quality for every woman, whether she wants to attract the man of her dreams or not. Men need a lot of affection and care as well, but just like you, they may feel the need for space now and then too. So, that’s why I believe a man will be more attracted to a woman who’s independent, who has her own friends, hobbies, and especially her own life beyond the relationship that she’s in.

12. Honest: A good woman is not afraid to tell you the truth even though you may not like it.This is another extremely important quality that every woman should possess in order to be true to herself and to attract the man of her dreams. Obviously, a lot of men want to be with a lady who is sincere and honest and who doesn't like lying or cheating. Well, who wouldn't? Even though most men want to create the impression that they’re really tough, they still can get hurt pretty easily and that’s why they want to trust the woman with whom they’ll be in a relationship. So, try to be sincere, and even though you may think that the truth will scare him, I think he’ll appreciate your honesty!

5 TRAITS OF A GOOD MAN

These are the qualities that makes a man stand out  and be labelled a good man!
1. PROMISES –  A man’s word is his currency.  A respectable  man is a man of his word. He says what he means and means what he says. His word is his bond. A good man will keep his promises to his woman. He won’t break dates and be a no call and no show. He will not play with your emotions.  He remembers to call you when he says he will. A man who values his woman keeps his promises. That is the way he shows that he cares.

2.  Intimacy is something that is natural to human nature. However, pressuring a woman whom he just met for sex is not of a good man’s nature. A man who has any intentions of being a good mate to you does not pressure you for sex when he meets you. A woman is not a vehicle to be driven. Her body does not need to be test driven. A woman is a gift from God, and her time, attention and affection should be appreciated, not taken for granted. If a woman meets a man who wants to test drive her physical body, emotions and feelings, it’s best that she point him to a car dealership, bid him goodbye and don’t look back! A woman deserves a good man who will respect her.   

3. A good man will let a woman know what place she has in his life. He will give you a title, whether that title be friend, girlfriend, boo, woman, lady, or wife, he will introduce you as such. He will introduce you according to how he feels about a woman, no surprises. Good men in general tend to be very protective. We mark our territory. If a good man loves you, he is willing to profess it to others. 

4.  A good man is not a selfish man. He puts his woman first and is always sure to address any issues or concerns that she may have. A good man desires to do things that make his woman happy. The opinions of his lady count to him. He understands that a happy wife means a happy life. 

5.  When a good man wakes up in the morning, his mission is to make sure that his family is taken care of in every way, to the best of his ability. He wants to make sure his woman is happy and satisfied. Providing for the people he loves and cares about, whether it’s financially or with sweat equity, it’s all a part of a good man’s DNA. A good man has no limits to the thing provides for those he loves.* A good man believes in uplifting his family, allowing himself to be an image that his family can look up to.  They in their life label him as a good man. 

* A good man has a desire to protect and provide for his woman. Even if he may currently not have the financial ability to provide for a woman he still has a deep desire to. If he doesn't want to see his mother working diligently chances are he does not want to see his woman work diligently either.